What is EMDR?

If a past experience still feels “close” — showing up as anxiety, intrusive memories, hypervigilance, strong emotion, or a sense of being stuck —
EMDR may help you process what happened so it has less power in the present.

EMDR is a structured, evidence-based therapy that helps the brain reprocess distressing memories and the beliefs, emotions, and body sensations connected to them.
The aim is not to erase what happened, but to reduce the intensity and help you feel more grounded in the present.

In simple terms: EMDR helps the brain “re-file” distressing memories so they feel more like something that happened in the past,
rather than something you’re still living through.

EMDR in plain language

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing. During EMDR, you focus briefly on aspects of a distressing memory while also
engaging in bilateral stimulation — most commonly guided eye movements, and sometimes taps or tones.

Many people find that, with processing, the memory becomes less vivid and less emotionally charged. Over time, the mind can link the memory with more adaptive
information (for example: “I’m safe now,” “It’s over,” or “I did the best I could”).

Important: EMDR is not hypnosis and it doesn’t “control” your mind. You remain present and in charge throughout.

Who is EMDR for?

EMDR is best known for working with trauma and PTSD. It’s also commonly used when past experiences continue to affect mood, relationships, self-worth,
or a sense of safety — even if the experience doesn’t fit what people typically think of as “trauma”.

Trauma + PTSD

Intrusive memories, nightmares, avoidance, feeling on-edge, emotional numbing, or strong body-based reactions.

Anxiety linked to the past

Panic, anticipatory fear, or “my body reacts before my mind catches up”.

Distressing memories that feel stuck

Shame, anger, grief, or self-blame that keeps resurfacing despite insight and effort.

In practice, a thorough assessment matters. Sometimes EMDR is the right next step; other times we start with stabilisation, skills-based work,
or a different evidence-based approach depending on your needs.

What happens in EMDR sessions?

EMDR follows a structured pathway. While clinicians describe this as eight phases, it often looks like:

• Assessment + planning — understanding your story and identifying targets and goals.
• Stabilisation — building grounding tools so you feel resourced and able to stay present.
• Processing — working through target memories with bilateral stimulation, in a paced way.
• Integration — strengthening more adaptive beliefs and linking gains to daily life.

We check in throughout. If something feels too much, we slow down, stabilise, and adjust. Therapy works best when you feel safe enough to engage.

Do I need to describe the whole trauma in detail?

Not always. EMDR can involve less detailed verbal recounting than some other trauma-focused therapies. The aim is still meaningful processing —
but in a way that is tolerable and paced.

Is EMDR evidence-based?

EMDR is widely regarded as an evidence-based therapy for PTSD and trauma-related symptoms. Like all therapies, outcomes vary depending on factors such as
the type of trauma, current stress, safety/stability, and the supports around you.

Our clinicians will help you choose an approach that matches your presentation — and will prioritise safety, pacing, and your readiness for trauma processing.

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